Message from Lowell to Upper School Students

The following was read to students in each Upper School homeroom this morning:

As most of you now know, one of our tenth-grade students, Payton Sullivan, took her own life on Friday. The entire Waynflete community joins with Payton’s family and friends in grief.

A death by suicide presents many questions that we may not be able to answer right away. It is usually caused by a disorder such as depression, for which Payton was being treated by professionals.

Depression can prevent a person from thinking clearly about their problems and how to solve them. Sometimes these disorders are not identified or noticed; in other cases, a person with a disorder will show obvious symptoms or signs. Certainly not all students who have depression feel suicidal.  It is important for you to know that resources are available at Waynflete for any students who struggle with these feelings. There are treatments that can help. One thing is for certain: suicide should never, ever be an option.

Each of us will react to Payton’s death in our own way, and we need to be respectful of each other. Some of you may not have known Payton very well and may not be as affected. Others may experience a great deal of sadness. Some of you may find you’re having difficulty concentrating on your schoolwork, while others may find that diving into your work is a good distraction. It’s important to know that there is no “right way” to process your feelings.

As we process grief in our own way, it is important that as a school we continue to follow our normal schedule and routine. Classes, practices, and rehearsals will continue as usual. If you feel the need for support at any time during the school day—including during classes—you can go to Lydia’s homeroom, which is across the hall from Holly. In addition, your advisors will be in their spaces at lunchtime today if you would like to connect with them.

If you are worried about yourself or one of your friends, you should talk with Cathie, Lydia, your advisor, or any adult in the community.  

We will keep you updated on the Sullivan family’s wishes for a way to remember Payton’s life. In the meantime, let’s join together in sending the Sullivans our thoughts and prayers in their time of grief.

Lowell

 

Updated Notice about the Change in End of the Day Schedule for US Students

As the fall season ends for sports teams, PE classes, and PA classes we are entering mud season.  PE classes ended on October 27 and Performing Arts classes ends on Thursday, November 5.  JV teams and the Field Hockey team are finished for the season.  PE will start back up on November 17 and PA on November 16.

 

The Jazz Band, Chorus, and Chamber group continue to rehearse throughout mud season.  Other students use the time for various other activities, including Driver’s Ed. and extra help with teachers.

Students who don’t have any scheduled activities may leave campus after 2:00 p.m. unless a parent makes a request otherwise to Holly Khiel.  Please contact Holly (ext. 1174) with questions.

Legally Blonde the Musical in Franklin Theater on November 5-7 at7PM; The Island Dinner is postponed.

Legally Blonde is more than just a musical; it is a hero’s journey with a persistent theme of positive transformation. We could forgive Elle Woods if, swimming in a powdery puff of pink pixie-dust, she never imagined she could offer more than an emphatic “Omigod!” to the world.  Even her own father says that she’s not “serious” enough, and the messages from her peers ring equally hollow.  Elle’s conundrum is that her family and friends underestimate her to such a point that she is incapable of estimating herself.

IMG_8325In this show, she sets out on a quest to reconnect to lost love. As she tackles stereotypes, snobbery, and scandal in pursuit of her dreams she instead finds how she can love her true self. Empowerment through truth and the authority of genuine voice are the messages this show brings to us. This energetic musical fills the stage with memorable songs and dynamic dances.

The amazing ensemble is dedicated to sharing Elle’s story with an intensity that matches the show’s demanding pace.   There is nothing more I could ask for than what I’ve gotten from this cast and crew. They are fully committed, willing to take risks and to learn, and trusting in each other and the directors.

 

Video of Final PK in the Boys Southern Maine Regional Soccer Game

Fall Sports Update: Boys’ and Girls’ Soccer Teams Each Fall in Overtime in State Championship Matches

Both the boys and girls soccer teams fell in the state championship games.  The girls lost to Orono 3-2 in double overtime and the boys lost to Washington Academy 1-0 in overtime.  The kids played their hearts out and left it all on the field.  I was grateful to be able to see them compete for state titles and extremely proud of the coaches and players for their accomplishments this season.  Thanks to the Flyer fans who braved the 5 hour ride and the Presque Isle November winds.

The boys celebrate their victory with the fans

The boys celebrate their victory with the fans

Many faculty and staff, a solid pack of students, and of course the parents were at the Fore River Fields on Wednesday afternoon to cheer on the boys soccer team’s dominant 4-0 victory over Monmouth Academy behind two goals each by Cullen Bollinger and Aaron Lee.  For more details, here are the links to articles on the game in the Forecaster and in the Portland Press Herald.

 

The girls pose with their championship plaque.

The girls pose with their championship plaque.

As the boys’ team lined up after the game to receive the Southern Maine Regional Champion plaque, news arrived that the girls’ team had also prevailed, 3-2 in overtime against Monmouth Academy.  Ava Farrar and Lydia Giguere scored goals during regulation.  In overtime, Arianna Giguere gathered up a rebound off another shot by Ava and buried it to end the game.  Here is the link to the PPH article on the game. 

 

Both teams are now headed north to Presque Isle on Saturday for matches against the Northern Maine Regional  winners to determine the State Championships.  Anyone interested in riding a fan bus should look for an email from Ross.

Go Flyers!

On Saturday, the boys’ soccer team defeated Sacopee Valley 2-0 to advance to the Southern Maine Regional Final against Monmouth Academy.  The game will be played at home.  Time and date to be announced.  The Portland Press Herald article on the Sacopee game is linked here.

Also on Saturday, Waynflete girls’ cross country team placed third at the Class C State Meet and the boys placed seventh.  The results of the girls’ race are linked here.  The results of the boys’ race are linked here.

On Friday afternoon, the #6 seeded Waynflete girls soccer team defeated the #2 seeded Madison Bulldogs 4-1 to advance to the Regional Final against Monmouth Academy, which defeated the #1 seed Sacopee Valley.  Captain Arianna Giguere scored three goals and junior Beata Vest scored one.  Junior back Isabel Canning had two assists on corner kicks.  The Regional Final game time and date to be announced.

On Thursday afternoon, the Boys’ Soccer team defeated Carrabec High School – for the second time in two days.  On Tuesday, the two teams played to a scoreless tie through 80 minutes of regulation and then through 30 minutes of overtime.  After two rounds of 5 penalty kicks – which were distinguished by outstanding goalie saves – the teams were still tied.  In fact, in the first round of penalty kicks, Waynflete fell behind by two, surviving that round when goalie Milo Belleau saved two of the last three shots.  After a second round of five, the teams remained tied.  On the 11th penalty kick, as daylight faded, Jack Weston buried his shot, followed by a missed Carrabec kick that secured the victory for Waynflete.  The full game story is linked here.

Or so we thought.  Unfortunately, the MPA ruled that the game officials in the boys’ soccer game executed the PK rule incorrectly.  In the third round all 5 players were supposed to get a kick.  It was not a sudden victory round.  So, on Thursday afternoon, the teams reassembled at the Fore River Fields to resume the third wound of PKs.  Fortunately,  thanks to another outstanding save by star goalie Milo Belleau and goals by Jack Weston, Ilyas Abdi, Willy Burdick, and finally a left footed clincher by Abel Alemayo, the boys prevailed.

They boys will play again in the Southern Maine Semifinal game against Sacopee Valley on Saturday at 10:30 at the Fore River Fields.

After defeating Boothbay 7-0 on Friday to qualify for the Southern Maine Regional Quarter-final game, the Girls’ team defeated the tournament third seed, St. Dominic Academy, 5-0 to advance to the semi-finals at Madison – most likely on Friday at 3:00 pm in Madison.  (Time to be confirmed  Wednesday morning.)  Three goals from sophomore Ava Farrar and two goals from sophomore Lydia Giguere led the way for the Flyers.  Directions to Madison High School are linked here.

Last Saturday,  the Girls’ Cross Country team won the Class C Regional Championship for the third consecutive year.  Abby Pipkin, Ellie Chidsey, and Gail Johnson finished in the top ten.  The full race results are linked here.

The Boys Cross Country team, running without two of our top five runners, placed 7th at Class C Regional Meet and qualified for the State Meet next Saturday.  Willson Moore finished fifth.  The race results are linked here.

The Cross Country State Meet will be held at the Twin Brook Recreation Center in Cumberland on Saturday, October 31, starting around 2:00.

Go Flyers!

The Stock Market Game is Under Way

This year the Business and Finance classes and the Finance Club are currently playing a game called The Stock Market Game (SMG). There are a total of 12 teams participating, split up between different classes. We play this game in order to learn more about the business world and how it works. Steve Kautz is teaching this class and has had his classes play the Game for the past ten years at Waynflete.  He has an incredible amount of knowledge about this subject material. As a matter of fact, Steve is one of the top financial educators in the State.  In an effort to learn more about The Stock Market Game, I asked Steve some questions.

First, I asked Steve why he includes this particular game in his Business and Finance curriculum.  He answered that he wants to promote both financial and math literacies. “Playing The Stock Market Game immerses students in numbers. Those who are already comfortable with math can use their skills for in depth analysis, modeling, and decision making.”

Then I asked him what he wants his students to learn from the game.  Students will gain some specific stock market research skills like reading charts, understanding ratios, calculating yields, and making predictions.  Also, I want them to get a feel for the risk/reward trade off inherent in investing.”  Steve’s ultimate goal is to “demystify the stock market.” He thinks that The Stock Market Game it is a very important tool with which students can use to learn and practice skills.

I am currently participating in The Stock Market Game as a student in Steve’s Business and Finance class. I am really enjoying it. Currently, my team is not doing so well, but we invested in a lot of stocks, so I am hopeful that our ranking will go up. I also love the subject material overall in this class.  I think I will draw on the knowledge and skills I learn in the class for my entire life.

Reflections on the Waynflete-McAuley Co-Op Field Hockey Team

Our last field hockey game at NYA wasn’t successful score-wise – a 5-1 loss – but the score is not what mattered to me. Success isn’t always determined by a team’s win-loss record at the end of a season. It can be determined by the team’s effort and increasing ability to meet the challenges it faces. This year was a pioneering year for the Waynflete-Catherine McAuley field hockey co-op team. As the goalie of the Varsity team, I would say it was a success.

At the end of last year, with a small number of players scheduled to return, the Waynflete field hockey team had a meeting and we were given three options: to compete at only the Junior Varsity level, to make a co-op team with Catherine McAuley. or to not have a team at all. Of course, we weren’t going to not play at all, so the decision was between playing only Junior Varsity or making a co-op team. Many people, including me, didn’t want to limit ourselves to only playing at the JV level, so as a team we decided the best option was a co-op team with McAuley.

Semhar Yehdego moves the ball up the field.

Semhar Yehdego defends against an opponent

Going into pre-season, I was nervous and didn’t know what to expect. I knew things were going to be very different because, in addition to playing with 12 brand new teammates, we had a new head coach, Stacy Sevelowitz.  But after only two weeks of pre-season, the team was already becoming cohesive as we bonded by working hard during practices. We even scheduled team bonding activities outside of practice.  We threw ourselves a pool party and attended McAuley Homecoming as a team.

The future is bright.  Besides being well bonded, our team is young, consisting of mostly freshmen and only one senior, so we have lots of room to improve. Even though our season wasn’t the best in terms of our record, it was a successful year considering the challenges we faced and me. Not all seasons are winning ones, and if they aren’t, they still can be determined successful by team effort and cohesiveness.  

Sergeant Helaina Lake to Speak at the Upper School Veteran’s Day Assembly

After a year hiatus, the Upper School is resuming our Veteran’s Day tradition of inviting a veteran of the armed services to speak at assembly.  The assembly will take place on November 3.

This year’s speaker is Sergeant Helaina Lake.  Sergeant Lake enlisted in the Army Reserves in July, 2006, shortly after graduating from Livermore Falls High School in Western Maine.  She served with the South Carolina National Guard’s 133rd Military Police Company and was deployed to Afghanistan in November, 2011.  As MPs, her Company’s role was to conduct joint force presence and combat patrols with their assigned Afghan Uniformed Police Substation.

On June 20, 2012, Sergeant Lake was severely wounded.  The Channel Six News coverage of her homecoming is linked here. Since being injured, she has undergone 41 surgeries, with more pending.  She is now medically retired.  She is living in Livermore Falls with her son Aden, going to school, and pursuing her life long passions for horses and physical fitness.  Hers is a story of extraordinary resilience.

Helaina, her siblings, and her parents are long time friends of Upper School Director Lowell Libby and his family.

Helaina and her siblings at the beach with Spencer ('06) and Anna ('09) Libby.

Helaina and her siblings at the beach with Spencer (’06)and Anna (’09) Libby.

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Helaina as a girl riding on the hill behind her house.

Reflections on Jonny Asen’s Talk at Upper School Assembly

Several times a year, the Upper School invites alums to speak at assembly about what they are doing currently and how their Waynflete experience relates.  The purpose of this speaker series is not only to inform our students of some of what our graduates are doing in the world but also to help them to see some of the various ways that their Waynflete experience can play out in their future lives.

Jonny_AsenThe most recent speaker was Jonny Asen ’05.  Jonny began his talk by reading a progress report from a teacher who expressed gratitude that the baseball season had finally ended, which he hoped would allow Jonny to shift his attention from his beloved New York Yankees back to the math problems at hand.  Jonny went on to recount his somewhat serendipitous journey from being a Waynflete “Lifer” to Trinity College, five years in the White House, and back to Maine where he lives in Portland with his wife Annie Reiner ’05 and works in Augusta as a senior advisor to Maine Speaker of the House Mark Eves.

I asked two USNOW staffers to reflect on Jonny’s talk.  Here is what they had to say.

Christian Brooks ’18:  

After listening to Jonathan Asen speak at assembly, I began to understand his story of success. After spending 14 years at Waynflete School, Jonathan said he was ready to move on and get out into the real world. Looking at his young career, one could say that Jonathan has already been very successful, not only working in the White House, but also obtaining a very important position as the Senior Advisor to Maine House Speaker Mark Eves.

 Something I really grasped from what Jonathan told us was how luck and good fortune presented him with great opportunities for his career. That being said, Jonathan also expressed how important it is to take these opportunities when they arise, especially those that take you out of your comfort zone. After working as an intern for Senator Obama’s presidential campaign, Jonathan was invited to work for the presidential campaign in the fall of 2008. However, he reached a crossroads. Should he move to D.C. or finish his college education? Finishing school was the final decision for him.

Although he didn’t get the internship he had wished for right after college, Jonathan continued to search for more opportunities and ultimately did become an intern at the White House mail room. Many people in this position would be eager to move on quickly and continue their careers, yet Jonathan was able to appreciate the situation, and his experience reading the letters that were sent to the White House continues to impact him today. Even after being offered a position with a labor union, Jonathan decided to continue his internship. As Jonathan had humbly stated previously, luck plays a huge part in anyone’s success. Through a good friendship made with a fellow intern in the mail room, Jonathan was eventually offered a higher job within the White House.

Looking back, Jonathan recognized that his Waynflete education gave him a good foundation and helped him in both his life and career. Looking ahead at my own future, I am grateful that I was able to hear Jonathan’s story, but more importantly, hear the main ideas that he believes helped him to become successful. It is important to take the opportunities that present themselves to you, even if you are unsure of the outcome, for you never know what could become something valuable for yourself. As of right now, I am interested in many different fields and possible careers that I could pursue, however I haven’t found a true passion yet. Taking Jonathan’s advice, I will continue to be open to new experiences and opportunities. Perhaps with a bit of luck and a lot of hard work, an opportunity seized could even develop into a successful career.

Shuhao Liu ’18:

Jonathan shared his experience growing up in the Waynflete community and working as an official at the White House. From his story, I learned that  he was not sure about his career at first. He said in his high school years, he was not overly involved in politics. But this did not get in the way for him to find out later on that he really wants to be a politician.  After 14 years at Waynflete, Jonathan was fully prepared to step out of his familiar neighborhood and discover himself.

I think this is a very significant thing that his years at Waynflete have brought to him. As a teenager, I often found myself confused about my future career. Now I realize that the most important thing for me is not to have a clear path to the future, but rather to build a heart full of passion for the unknown challenges in the future. A high school education should give a student a good sense of all the aspects of life. At the same time, it should help the student to build a mind that is always eager to learn and explore. If a student is prepared as such, like Jonathan, it is okay for him to be unsure about what he is going to do in the future. As long as he has the desire to learn, he will not be afraid of the unknown and will always keep going forth. This spirit can lead him to discover more and more about himself and eventually to find out who he really wants to become.

So now I know that the most important thing right now is to have the passion to try new things. By doing this, I will not only gain a better understanding of all the different career paths open to me, but I will also gain confidence that will help me to discover myself in the future. In my first year at Waynflete, the School is already providing me many opportunities to learn about myself. I am preparing for the school’s play and working on a robotics team project at the same time. I feel fortunate that Jonathan Asen shared his experience with us. That helped me to change the way I look at my time at Waynflete and the future.

US Students Enjoy the Warm Fall Weather with a Game of Touch Football

Regional Cross Country Meet Photo Gallery

Christian Rowe ’16 talks with Jonny Asen ’05 after his talk at Upper School Assembly

Lorry Stillman, who was Jonny’s Upper School advisor, Sarah Plimpton, and Jenny Alfrey listen in.

Order Your 2016 Waynflete Yearbook

Yearbooks are $50 ($65 if ordered after December 4). To order your book for delivery in the spring, choose one of the following options:
  • Complete a paper order form and write a check to Waynflete. Return both to the Upper School office.
  • Order online here.

Seventeen-year-old campaign manager is an ‘old soul’ with a passion for politics

  

Convocation 2015

Each year the entire school community of students, faculty, and staff gather together in the Sanctuary for the Convocation Ceremony, which is the official opening of school.  Here is an edited video of the event.

The Mask You Live In : October 22

The Mask You Live In – Film Screening

South Portland High School

October 22 |  6:00-8:30 p.m.

Free

PosterWaynflete is pleased to sponsor the screening of “The Mask You Live In,” a new film aimed at promoting dialogue and awareness about masculinity in our culture and the social pressures boys face. We encourage parents to attend as an excellent chance to learn how adults can support positive identity and self expression for boys and young men. Students welcome (ages 17+ recommended). Register here.

Jonny Asen ’05 to Speak at Upper Assembly

Jonny_AsenJonny Asen ’05 will speak at Upper School assembly on October 20. He grew up in Portland and attended Waynflete for 14 years. He received his bachelor’s degree from Trinity College in Hartford, Connecticut.  He was a history major.

While at Trinity he took time off to work on then Senator Barack Obama’s presidential campaign. In 2009, he moved to Washington and worked at the White House for five years.  He served in various capacities in the Office of Presidential Correspondence, the Chief of Staff’s Office, and the Office of Legislative Affairs.

Jonny moved back to Maine in January to work as the Senior Advisor to Maine House Speaker Mark Eves. Jonny lives in Portland with his wife Annie Reiner ’05. They met at Waynflete.

At the Upper School assembly, Jonny plans to talk about his path from Waynflete to the West Wing and back to Maine.  We look forward to his homecoming at Waynflete.

PRIDE Week in the Upper School

Waynflete students were invited to WEAR YOUR PRIDE WEDNESDAY in support of relationships, community and diversity during PRIDE Week in Upper School.  Tuesday’sassembly featured two performance pieces written by young people in Maine presented by the Out and Allied Theater group followed by a screening of Put This On The Map film in the library on Wednesday and Thursday.  The events are all designed to get conversations going about what kind of school Waynflete aspires to be.  New students learn about the Safe Place signs all over campus in 9th grade seminar, but the real question sparked by these posters is “What can each person do to contribute to a place where everyone is welcome?”  Click here to listen to the Waynflete students, faculty, and staff Voices of Diversity film made four years ago by the GSTA.

 

 

Twin Day?

The Ethical Leadership and Service Group Picks Apples and Launch a Backpack, Glove, Mitten, and Hat Drive for the Preble Street Resource Center

The Upper School Ethical leadership and Service group volunteered to pick apples for the Soup Kitchens at the Preble Street Resource Center.  Six students – Julia Hansen, Nick Jenkins, Owen Hoffsten, Emma Anghel, Georgia Goodman, and Owen Ardell – along with the activity leader Lydia Maier and Upper School Assistant Holly Khiel picked 7 boxes in one hour and delivered them to Preble Street where the group volunteers one breakfast shift per month all year. This week also marks the beginning of their Preble Street 6-12 Homeroom drive. Please bring in used backpacks, gloves, mittens and hats and drop in Homeroom bins!

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